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07-27-2010 5:13 PM -- By: Lisa,  From: Nashville TN  

Carla

I am so happy you could spend this time with your family

I know how strong you are but sometimes you just need time. My love to you and Paul Jr

07-21-2010 7:29 PM -- By: denise king,  From: Cumberland R.I.  

so sorry for your loss such a good  looking  man .i lost my son too he was only 17 in an accident   .you will see paul again as i will see my son take care happy angel day to u paul    billys mom forever <3

07-21-2010 11:51 AM -- By: Myra,  From:  

Dear Carla, Thinking of you today. I know what its like to have flashbacks of that time in space where if you could you would go back and change it to where your son was happy and smiling. May today be a day of blessings for you instead of the terrible sadness we know so well. Many Hugs for you.

07-03-2010 3:32 PM -- By: Erin,  From: Ny  

Happy 4th of July Paul!!! I miss you and Love it lots

04-03-2010 1:27 PM -- By: Erin,  From: NY  

Thinking of you a lot. I really miss you. Although you can't be here by my side I feel you near me, when I close my eyes So I wont let your memory come to an end Because when I said forever, that's just what I meant Always in my heart forever

02-18-2010 9:38 PM -- By: Erin,  From: NY  

I miss you Paul

12-14-2009 3:50 PM -- By: George Carafos,  From: Rochester  

12-13-2009 12:47 AM -- By: Helen Bellomo,  From: Rochester, NY  

Dear Carla,

When I met you, my heart told me "you are a very beautiful person" and those thoughts have never wavered, The love for Paul and his for you is so evident in everything you say and do. How very wonderful to have that closeness with your child and the knowledge of it continuing.....God Bless you, Carla

Helen

12-10-2009 3:41 PM -- By: J A Johnson,  From: Rochester, NY  

Dearest Carla, Everytime I read your memorial, I feel and see different thoughts. I see a love that is uncommon in today's world, I see giving and compassion, I see two people who together really made a difference in our world. I see strength beyond measure, I doubt many mother's could have done this well. I certainly know your pain and we have talked about it many times. You still inspire me to this day. I know you know that Paul's spirirt and love is with you in Tennessee. May you find the inner peace you have so longed for and a happiness that he would want you to have. We pray for your health & keeping the faith you have found in your heart. May your holidays be blessed with miracles and love.

11-23-2009 10:06 PM -- By: Karen ,  From: Roch NY  

Happy Thanksgiving, May God bring you peace, Carla,

09-26-2009 1:38 PM -- By: Myra,  From:  

My heart goes out to you and may you have peace in your heart.

Happy Birthday Paul

09-26-2009 2:27 AM -- By: Amy's mom,  From:  

Dear Carla,

I wanted you to know that you and your beautiful son, Paul, are in our thoughts and prayers today.  What a beautiful celebration of Paul's wonderful journey you have made. Thank you so much for sharing this with us.  The quote from Gandhi was one that held special meaning for my beloved Amy as well.  The first thing I did after Amy's accident was pray to God that I wouldn't turn bitter.  He answered my prayers and I am able to wake each morning thanking God for the 17 wonderful  years He blessed us with Amy on earth and the knowledge we will be family for eternity one day in God's time.  I love too the Serenity Prayer.   It took me over a year to find my peaceful heart to surrender to God what I couldn't control - Amy's accident - and to focus on living life fullly and continuing to make this world an even better place just as these beautiful children understood all along.    These beautiful children truly did prepare us for this journey we are left to carry on and we will continue their legacy as they would wish.  Thank you you again for sharing your beautiful family with us. Peace and Love

09-01-2009 9:07 PM -- By: Johnsons- friends,  From: NY  

Carla....let the light of your heart shine wherever you go. You have brought so much to our lives, I dont think you will imagine how much. Miss you already.

08-20-2009 3:30 PM -- By: Rita Newell-Jones,  From: NY  

May the presence of your son's love heal your broken heart. There is no greater loss in this world- believe me, I know how it is.

07-22-2009 2:18 PM -- By: Pam Kersjes,  From: spencerport, ny  

God Bless you and your family.  I'm sure your son is looking down smiling and waiting for the day you will be reunited again. 

07-21-2009 11:50 PM -- By: Terry and Jeanette O'Reilly,  From: Rochester, new york 14609  

THIS IS TRULY A REMARKABLE MEMORIAL THAT YOU HAVE DONE FOR YOU SON. I HOPE ONE DAY THAT THINGS WILL GET A LITTLE BETTER FOR YOU. YOU ARE IN MY PRAYERS. YOUR COUSINS

07-21-2009 9:47 PM -- By: Mary Boesch,  From: Rochester, NY  

Carla, Thank you for sharing your heartfelt memories of Paul Jr. Your source of strengh and courage is such a gift of inspiration to us all from your son. You both were truly blessed to be mother and son. May you find comfort in knowing that his legacy will live on in those lives he's touched. God Bless.

07-21-2009 9:23 PM -- By: Karen (French)Gotcsik,  From: Rochester. NY  

You are always in our prayers.

07-21-2009 6:27 PM -- By: Jennifer Brush,  From: Rochester, NY  

Hello Carla!  I just read your son's memoriam in the Rochester D&C and it touched me deeply.  When I saw that he had a memorial here on VM, I just had to stop by to visit.  You should be SOOO proud of the amazing son you raised!  It is obvious how much you love one another and have helped to support each other throughout the years.  You have done a wonderful job with this memorial and also with continuing his legacy.  I have tried to do the same thing for my first born child, Taylor, who died at age 6 1/2 months.  This site has been very healing for me to say the least!  I am not on much anymore and need to do some updating but feel free to visit when you can!  Thank you for sharing your beautiful son's life with so many people who never had the opportunity to meet him but have been changed because of him.  "Each Life is a Miracle that Changes the World!!!" 

Much love

Jennifer Brush, Mommy to Angel Taylor

07-21-2009 3:14 PM -- By: Christine,  From: Rochester  

What a beautiful tribute to your son.  I saw the memorial in the democrat and chronicle with the link to this page, I am glad I visited, what a inspiration he was.  Thank you for sharing his life. 

07-21-2009 2:57 PM -- By: Natalie Stavrevsky,  From:  

May God bless you Carla and your beautiful memories.  May Paul's memory be eternal.

07-21-2009 2:36 PM -- By: Jason P,  From: Rochester, NY  

Hi Carla,

Your website is so beautiful. Thank you for sharing your heart with us today. I can't say anything you haven't already said on here. I hope you know they are never lost.

07-21-2009 1:27 PM -- By: myra,  From:  

Paul is such an exceptional Angel. May peace be with you on his Angel Day.

07-21-2009 10:27 AM -- By: Debrah Agnello,  From: Florida  

Just a short note to say that my thoughts are with Carla on this difficult anniversary of the passing of her dear son.  My she find some peace today.

Debbie and Noel

07-21-2009 10:10 AM -- By: Lynne,  From:  

What a beautiful website in memory of Paul. I am so blessed to have known him. I keep his memory with me always and still have his favorite passage on my fridge to remind me. May you and your family continue to find strength.

With love always, Lynne

07-21-2009 9:55 AM -- By: Marcy Daniels,  From: Bloomfield, NY  

My thoughts and prayers go out to all of you...may Paul rest in peace...

07-21-2009 8:34 AM -- By: Barb,  From: Rochester  

What a beautiful tribute to your son.  For those of us who did not know him-you have let us share the wonderful life he lived.  Now your job-the hard part-is to carry on with sadness and a heavy heart.  Remember-he lives in all you see and do.

07-21-2009 8:21 AM -- By: Brittany,  From: Kentucky  

Happy Angelversary Paul 

Thinking of you and your family today. God Bless.

Brittany & Angel Barry

07-21-2009 1:25 AM -- By: Melanie ~,  From:  

So sorry for your loss.

What a beautiful Memorial to your son.

I'm a mommy to an angel too...  :(

07-16-2009 9:50 AM -- By: nancy kota,  From: byron  

so sorry for the loss of your handsome son.  Thinking of you...